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This is my friend Alisson Dube - on her trek to climb the highest mountain in Africa - here is her lesson from the climb. Alisson is one of the most insightful people I have ever met. Her lessons and words always hit the mark. |
I know right?
Climbing a mountain as a metaphor for life or business... It's been done
before. Well, give me a shot because I
think my experience was a little bit different :)
I was part of a group of 12 people attempting to climb Mt
Kilimanjaro, the 4th highest mountain in the world. We had spent a year preparing: training,
fundraising for the local hospital, buying the right gear, getting all the travel
medical stuff in order and dreaming about it.
It was kind of like trying to open my business. A lot of details riding on a dream. This thing that you invest so much of yourself
in: your money, your expertise, your time away from your family - all for the
idea of what it's going to become!
So after a long 8 hours of walking/hiking on Day 3 I was
sitting at camp at 4000m with a journal on my lap and Africa spread out in
front of me. And, not for the first time
in the year, I wondered if we were going to make it. Don't get me wrong, the dream was still
there. Snow-capped and solid behind the
drifting clouds, the peak was there, getting closer every day but still an
intimidating giant. I had a tiny sense
of what it would be like to be like to make it all the way. It would be undeniable and a part of my story
forever!
But this was a tough project. It wasn't exciting. It was tedious. At the top of every rise there was another
one. And there wasn't much of a
view. Rocks, clouds, and more often than
not, the person's heels in front of me.
We ate a lot of rice. After a
couple of hours there weren't many stories left to share, nor the breath to
tell them. And there were blisters,
headaches, dizzy spells and sore muscles.
You get the parallels right? To paperwork and hiccups, roadblocks and red
tape. Inevitably, at some point, we all
wonder if the dream, the peak is worth it.
We don't need this. We've come
this far and that's a lot more than most people even attempt! We want our steak and potatoes, our pillow
top mattress, our career with benefits back.
So how did I finish the journey? No differently than I had started it. Say it with me now, "one step at a
time!" One tedious right foot in
front of the next boring left foot.
Eating even though I wasn't hungry, planning out your yearly marketing
plan even though you would rather be done working for the day. Helping a teammate pack their tent up because
they were feeling the altitude worse than me, taking the time to train a new
employee even though your work is piling up.
Every meter, every meeting - they all matter.
5895m - Uhuru Peak at sunrise after climbing all night
long. The air is thin and cold at the
top of Africa. But there we were, a year
in the making, standing at the summit.
Honestly? I was cold. And tired.
And knew that in a few minutes I was going to have to walk back down
again. One step at a time.
So what's the lesson?
Would I do it again? No. Would I tell my friends to try it? No, because if they didn't have the desire on
their own nothing I could say would give it to them. But it's been a couple weeks now and I've
been telling my story to a lot of friends and family. I've noticed something. Every time I tell the story my eyes are a
little brighter, my trials and tribulations are just a little lighter, maybe
even funny. And my team? We're a family now. For the rest of our lives, we did this
incredible thing together. Every time I
eat rice I'll remember wondering if it was really chicken in the stew. Every time I can't fall asleep I'll be
thankful that at least I'm not wearing a toque, and parka and gloves. And every time I'm faced with a tedious,
boring chore? I'm not pretending it was
that profound a change. I'm not suddenly
a disciplined machine. But the
dream? The peak? Your legacy?
There's a story there that's worth telling one day. All you have to do is keep walking forward
and get there :)
Thanks Alisson for the great lesson - it's always in the story!